Gorgeous difficult interview.
The line about making other people uncomfortable - that there is a cost to dealing with discomfort, and that people, especially women are expected to bear that cost - I think this should be acknowledged more.
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(via Revealing more of North Korea - The Big Picture - Boston.com)
The emptiness of Pyongyang, and the careful expressions on almost everyone’s face. The photographs of the food shop and children are the most painful to me. Really good colour and framing to suggest intense staged shots with tiny painful details.
Playdough is like blu-tack for babies. You can stick anything on them.
I had gone to visit the lovely man in the hospital every day. I knew his condition was terminal, and as his pastor, these moments were precious.
The nurse came in and I started to excuse myself. But the patient said, “Don’t leave.” Then turning to the nurse, he introduced me. “Betty, I want you to meet my girlfriend, Carol.”
I laughed, stretched out my hand to shake the nurse’s and said, “Actually, I’m the REVEREND Carol Howard Merritt, his PASTOR. You can call me Carol, but he is not allowed to call me ‘girlfriend.’” I gave him a stern sideways glance and shook my head.
Some practical advice - I especially like her note on anger which is often seen as a sin when it’s more neutral like fire.
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(via Hello, tailor.: The Bletchley Circle) The fashion of the poor. People often forget that post-WWII, Britain stayed on rationing for years and years. Clothes were hard to come by and make-up even more so.
digatisdi:
When I was in preschool there was this really weird system of time-out where they’d put you in this giant plastic bucket sort of like this one:

And the rule was you couldn’t leave the bucket for ten minutes.
In case you didn’t know, I was what the teachers referred to as a…